Wednesday, August 31, 2011

My Thanks to Amy Tan

A film that introduced me to the subject of Chinese culture some years ago was Oliver Stone's production of "The Joy Luck Club."  The film itself was based upon the novel by author Amy Tan.  As I look back on my life journey, I see this now as the beginning of many wonderful things for me.  I owe Amy Tan my thanks for her literary work, which continues to reach millions of people around the world.  I have also discovered that Tan has put much of herself into her novels.  This is especially true regarding the challenges of the "Chinese" experience in the Western world.


Amy Tan was born in Oakland, California.  Both of her parents were Chinese immigrants.  Her father was a man by the name of John Tan.  He was an electrical engineer and also a Baptist clergyman.  He came to America to escape the turmoil of the Chinese Civil War between the Nationalists and Communists.  Amy's mother, Daisy, inspired Tan's novel "The Kitchen God's Wife" due to her difficult early life back in China.  Back then, Daisy had divorced an abusive husband.  However, she also lost custody of her three daughters.  She was forced to leave China without them as she escaped on the last boat to leave Shanghai right before the Communist victory in 1949.  Even so, her marriage to John did produce three children in all:  Amy and two brothers.


Throughout her adult life, Amy Tan had a somewhat strained relationship with her mother.  This began to occur after tragedy struck their family.  Her father, John, and an older brother both died of brain cancer within a year of each other.  Amy's mother had a plan for her daughter's life which Amy did not follow.  So for a time Amy and her mother could not even speak to each other.  I find that Amy Tan's novels are a unique insight into many of the problems that immigrant families face when trying to make a new home for themselves in America.  The blessing of being Chinese can present many difficulties, but every problem can be resolved with time, patience, and love.  Amy Tan's excellent stories always portray the hardships, but they likewise present the joys of living too.  If you have not yet read Amy Tan, pick up a copy of "The Joy Luck Club" or "The Kitchen God's Wife" today.  You will be glad you did.  May good luck and much joy be yours!


Best regards from your friend,

Harlan Urwiler


For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.     

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Asian/American Intermarriages

The trend of intermarriage is nothing new.  However, it should also be noted that throughout history all cultures have opposed the idea of a person from one culture or race marrying someone from another culture or race.  Nations have always been interested in preserving the aspects of their culture and race from compromise.  The simple fact is that "intermarriage" compromises the distinctiveness of an ethnic group at the most intimate level possible:  the family unit.  Therefore, there were often strict legal prohibitions on "who" you could marry in the past.  Even so, intermarriages still did happen despite the harsh social penalties.


Today, these prohibitions have been removed in the United States.  The incidence of intermarriage is more and more common.  Few people now have serious problems with the fact that some people choose to marry someone from a different culture or race.  One truth about those who intermarry is that such people feel less constrained by public opinion.  Consequently, they tend to be more receptive to change.  In our world today change is very much a part of our daily lives. 


As this phenomenom pertains to Chinese women, there is the stigma of remarriage that may enter into the equation.  It has been said that many Chinese men are reluctant to marry women who have been married before, even when such women are widows.  Traditionally, Chinese women were supposed to remain true to their deceased husbands and not marry again.  In fact, throughout China the countryside is dotted with arches built in honor of widows who never remarried.  Therefore, to remarry Chinese women sometimes find it easier to go outside their own ethnic group.  To help matters out for Chinese women (as well as other Asian brides-to-be), many American men have taken on a special fascination with things "Asian" in recent years.  Regardless of the reasons, people who intermarry seem to possess special characteristics and traits.  At some point, these people have decided that public opinion of their cultural group is not important in regard to the selection of a marriage partner.  This combined with the ease of intermarriage now makes this type of union more common than ever before!


Best regards from your friend,

Harlan Urwiler


For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Beautiful Japanese Ceramics for Home

So you are a fan of most things "Japanese."  Well, you are certainly not alone.  Japanese culture has produced some very beautiful and elegant items during its history.  Even a quick glance at their culture and art, not to mention their venerated traditions, will confirm this fact.  However, when most people think about Japanese ceramics a lot of us don't realize that before the Edo period (1603-1868) ceramics were practically foreign to Japan.


The ceramic industry actually made its greatest progress with development of the traditional "tea ceremony."  At the start of the 18th century, Chinese wares used in tea ceremony records were much more expensive than Japanese wares.  So the industry had not flourished prior to this time.  For practical purposes, common meals and banquet ceremonies were served on lacquer ware for the wealthy.  In addition, the poor and middle class also ate off of lacquer or wooden trays.


However, toward the end of the 18th century business had started to change for the ceramic ware industry.  There came to be a large growth in the production of ceramic wares.  It also contributed to the elevation of all social classes of the population.  You could say that ordinary people desired to have porcelain wares to rival the upper classes.  Pots, jars, and other kind of containers were becoming necessary in order to store goods in shops, restaurants, and even homes.  The catalyst seems to have been the popularity of the tea ceremony.  The people of Japan all wanted to partake in this ritual... including the elegant ceramic wares needed for it!


The point for today is that one's choice of Japanese ceramics is a truly thoughtful way to add to your Asian home's atmosphere.  They are classic items that have never outlived their usefulness.  Almost any person can enjoy them.  Japanese ceramics are a very good porcleain selection.


Best regards from your friend,

Harlan Urwiler


For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

International Fashion a Reality!

What we see a lot of in Asian women's fashion is similar to what most Western women are wearing these days.  Jewelry is present, but it is generally not overdone.  Jeans and decorative blouses are frequently noticed, yet there is also something distinctive about the way Asian women dress themselves.  From the standpoint of what is "contemporary" in the West, one might conclude that Asian women still retain a touch of modesty but not a traditional look either.


Many garments and fashionable items are made in China these days.  So much of Western women are wearing is probably from Asia too.  With the international market place being alive and well, it is a reality that fashion today has taken on the same "international" styles.  Even so, the Chinese woman can still find distinctive fashion from China to express her culture appropriately.  The same can be said for the Japanese woman and others.  There has never been an era quite like the one we are living in now.  Happy shopping!


Best regards from your good friend,

Harlan Urwiler


For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

The Traditional Customs for Thai Women

In the past different attitudes were commonplace regarding the roles of men and women of Thailand.  For example, when a male baby was born a slate and a pencil were placed beside the baby.  The idea was that this baby boy should grow up to become a man of knowledge and understanding of the world.  However, if the baby was a girl a needle and thread would be placed next to the baby instead.  This would mean that this little girl ought to grow up to become a good housewife.  When this same baby boy got a little older he would be sent to study at a temple.  The same-age girl would have to stay home and learn to do household chores.  An old Thai saying goes like this: The charm at the tip of a ladle makes a husband love his wife all of his life."


In the old days a woman could not select her own husband.  Her parents would make an arrangement with the parents of a man they believed to be suitable for their daughter.  Such an arrangement was generally based upon social and financial status.  Therefore, once she was married a Thai woman's whole life was to be fully devoted to her husband and family.  A traditional Thai wife was expected to show respect to her husband every day of her life.  She would cook good food for him, sleep at his feet when going to bed, take care of all household work, and wake up before him in the morning to begin preparing food again.  Punishment for disobeying these expectations was usually harsh.


The influence of the West was probably the single greatest influence that brought about changes for the lives of Thai women.  As the influence of the Western world became greater, the role and status of women in Thailand also began to improve.  It is true that to outsiders Thai women may have been treated unfairly by men for a very long time.  However, careful readers should also remember that the women of the past were taught from the time they were very young that this was the way life must be for them.  The cultural environment they lived in all their lives made them intimately familiar with these practices.  Some women even considered it a matter of personal pride to make their husbands as comfortable as possible!


Best regards from your good friend,

Harlan Urwiler



For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.  

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Thailand's Buddhist Heritage And the Role of Women

The culture and religious history of Thailand has been deeply influenced by Buddhism for a very long time.  Going back into history, you could say that Thai people have fervently believed in the doctrine of "karma."  This idea teaches that good or bad deeds performed in one's past life have an effect upon on the condition of one's present life.  If you behaved yourself in a past life, you might be re-born as a rich or important person in the next life.  If you misbehaved, you could be re-born as an animal or a rodent.  

The first ruler of Thailand who studied in the West was King Rama VI (1910-1925) who traveled to England in 1893.  It was upon this venture that the king was able to observe the advancement of women in the Western world.  This had a profound infuence upon him which he never forgot.  He later returned to Thailand and invoked a campaign to give more rights to Thai women.  Prior to this, only very rich women had such privileges.  King Rama was quite unhappy with the way the women of his day were treated.  So he determined to make changes. 


In a sense, the king had to fight against the wronglful application of the teaching of karma to be successful.  It was commonly thought among the people of Thailand that if a baby was born a female it could be the result of that soul's misdeeds in a previous life.  For example, there was an old belief that if a man committed adultery after his death he would go to hell for a time and be severely punished.  Then once the punishment was over, he would be re-born as a woman for 500 lives and then a transvestite for another 500 lives.  After all this, he would only then be re-born once more as a man.


This kind of thinking does reflect a Buddhist religious view.  However, the idea also portrays the gender of women in a highly negative way.  King Rama wrote several articles in his lifetime.  In these articles he clearly indicated that he was not satisfied with the status of Thai women in his time.  He believed that women should enjoy equal rights.  He went even further and voiced his strong opinion against the old beliefs regarding women as being inferior to men.   It took time to change the cutlural viewpoint of the population about women.  Even so, the king became a pioneer in Thailand for equality between men and women.  Today, Thai women have a very different future because of such changes!


Best regards from your friend,

Harlan Urwiler

For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

The Saga of Thailand Women

When one thinks of the women of the country of Thailand, there is a certain stereotype which always comes to mind.  The idea is that Thai women have very good manners, love to take care of their families, and are always obedient to their husbands.  Of course, this same stereotype could also be applied to other Asian women.  However, the sage of the women of Thailand is a very interesting one to consider.  Thailand itself is a particularly fascinating place to learn about.  So the story of its women gives us a unique and telling insight into this Asian culture.


The good news is that in Thailand today women go to work like men do.  Many women have been promoted to leadership positions in business, society, and government.  Thai women are more self-confident in the working world than at any other time in their history.  Even so, it is rare to find a Thai woman who would neglect her family responsibilities.  The social, and even religious influence, of family remains a strong factor how these women live today.

In the past things were quite different for the woman of Thailand than they are today.  Women of the past were expected to take care of their husbands which included total obedience to him in every way.  Plus, rich men always had several wives at the same time.  The more wives a rich man had the greater his perceived social status was.  The wives of rich men had more legal protection than those of lower rank, but they never had equal rights as men.  Today, these things have been changed so that all women have equal rights under the law.  Yes, Thai women have come a long ways.  There is still more to this story though.  Till next time!

Best regards from your good friend,

Harlan Urwiler 


For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.

Monday, August 8, 2011

Buddha Statues For Everyday Life

Chinese Buddhist statues of ancient times make a definite point.  They unquestionably prove that Buddhist art has had a longstanding and profound influence upon the people, culture, and history of China.  It makes sense that this should be the case too.  After all, Buddha statues are supposed to represent the calm and serenity that is supposed to come from attaining enlightenment (also called "self knowldege").  With this state of mind the blessed experience of nirvana in the after life is made more possible... or so the faith of Buddhism declares. 


Chinese Buddhist art has been around for thousands of years.  One of the early pieces is the famous Sitting Bodhisattva.  There are only a few examples of this piece in existence today, but they are made with superior quality.  So a rich collector will spend a great deal of mony at auction to purchase one of these pieces!  In this piece, the Buddha is sitting with his legs crossed.  This represents calmness and peace within through meditation.  It is indeed a very fine piece of Buddhist art.


This kind of distinctive artwork is an important part of China's culture and its history.  You need not claim Buddhism as your own faith to enjoy a Buddha statue.  Many examples of Buddhist art on display in Chinese businesses and art museums around the world.  People possess Buddha statues for many different reasons.  Maybe you might get one simply because you desire to be identified as an enlightened, compassionate person.  China is said to have a population of 1.3 billion people.  It seems unlikely that this many people could be wrong about the attraction and value of the Buddha!


My very best regards to you,

Harlan Urwiler

For more information, feel free to check out my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Land of the Morning Calm

It has been said that Korea is place of opposites existing closely with each other.  This is most obvious in the fact that it combines ancient Eastern tradition with modern technology.  For instance, in downtown Seoul one can find evidence of the country's long history in its palaces, city gates, and certainly its temples.  However, it is also plain to see that the country is developing very rapidly in terms of its education, technology, and industry.


Most Koreans enjoy western clothing like suits and jeans.  The dress of every day life is much like one would find in southern California or even urban Chicago.  Even so, the national costume of Korea is called the "hanbok" and it is still worn by many people during national holidays or celebrations.  According to Korean tradition, most people should wear white clothes.  Colored clothing are supposed to be reserved for those members of the upper classes of society.  It is also a known fact that rubber shoes and sandals have largely been replaced by designer shoes and sneakers.  Shoes must always be taken off when entering someone's house though.


The Korean people have descended from the Mongolian race of prehistoric Asia.  Periods of occupation brought Chinese and Japanese blood into the national gene pool.  So there is also evidence of limited cultural influence from both China and Japan.  However, despite having borrowed from these other cultures, Koreans have established and maintained their own language, culture, and distinctive customs.  Korea is a very family-oriented society at its heart.  It has been heavily influenced by the philosophy of Confucius.  This has helped to create its "family-oriented" nature, even sustaining it over time.  The Korean people have much to be proud of.... and there is still a great deal for us to learn about the Land of the Morning Calm!


Best regards in your journey of life! 

Harlan Urwiler

For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.  

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

The Korean Ceramcis

One hears a lot about Chinese and Japanese decor in the circle of East Asian art.  These two civilizations have (without dispute) effected much of the common culture of many other places.  This is most obviously true of China which has also influenced Japan in its long, old history.  Often the aggression of Japan was the primary vehicle of influence to other parts of East Asia.  In any case, these two civilizations have exerted their influence in a number of different ways.


When it comes to Korea, the Asian enthusiast must look a little deeper to discover the contributions to East Asian artwork.  However, if one does investigate they will not be unhappy with the very fine art they discover from Korea.  One type of art is commonly known as "traditional Korean ceramics."  One very influential piece is the famous "celadon" of Korea.  The celadon has a very yellowish color its body.  It resembles what Westerners call a vase or a pot.  In fact, it is a kind of pot but it also a special creation of East Asia.  In the past celadons were used often in the royal courts of particular dynasties.


There is also white porcelain which is a very beautiful piece of artwork.  Sometimes figures like clouds or dragons are painted onto porcelain pieces which make them very beautiful and also quite meaningful.  One can follow the auctions of ancient artwork through auction houses in Hong Kong or Beijing.  Often reproductions of the classic pieces are created, though these are usually not made to last for centuries.  Korean celadons are particularly useful for the Asian decorator because they compliment either a Chinese or a Japanese scheme very nicely.  Korean ceramics are definitely worth checking out!


Best regards,

Harlan Urwiler


For more information, feel free to visit my website at:  http://www.myorientalgallery.com/.